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Earn Your Happy

Find your purpose, build your network and make money doing what you love with Earn Your Happy, a motivation-packed podcast! You’ll think bigger, dig deeper and gain the confidence to go for your (world dominating) goals. Each week, learn how to get to the next level personally and professionally with host Lori Harder, best-selling author, investor, multi-passionate entrepreneur, and founder of the female funded beverage company Lite Pink, for which Lori raised over $2 million through the strong network she has built. Lori will give you a vulnerable, behind-the-scenes look at the challenges of growing a business, the toll it can take on your relationships and mental health, and how to support yourself through it all so you can reach your massive goals. Be mentored through your earpods on the topics of starting and scaling a company, building a personal brand, manifestation, boundaries, money, fear, relationships and taking the next big leap in life. Get the inside scoop on who you need in your circle, how to find them and the lies you need to stop believing to be successful. You’ll laugh, cry and feel like you’re not alone in the journey. Follow Lori @loriharder on Instagram for more inspiration and behind-the-scenes of how she is building Lite Pink.
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May 31, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Identifying a narcissist
  • Tools for dealing with a narcissist
  • Where most people go wrong
  • Breaking free from a narcissist

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

We’ve all had to deal with narcissists before. Not pleasant, is it? You’re in luck because, after a career as a highly successful attorney, Rebecca Zung has made a name for herself by helping others learn how to deal with the narcissists in their lives. Whether it’s a coworker, competitor, family member, or even a spouse, she offers the tools you need to handle narcissism and, if necessary, how to break free from them.

 

Question Highlights:

  • What is a narcissist?
  • How do you know when you have a narcissist in your life?
  • What is gaslighting?
  • What do you do when dealing with a narcissist?
  • Where do people go wrong with narcissists?
  • What do you wish people knew about what you do?
  • What was it like to change paths when you realized you weren’t as happy as you could be?

 

Guest Bio:

Rebecca Zung is one of the top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as a “Best Lawyer in America,” as “Legal Elite” by Trend Magazine, and as AV preeminent rated in family law, the highest possible rating for an attorney by Martindale Hubbell, by her peers and the judiciary. She is the author of the bestselling books, “Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win” (foreword by Robert Shapiro) and “Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom”, and is a sought-after major media contributor. Her perspectives are in high demand by television and print outlets, as she has been featured in or on Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York, and CBS Los Angeles, among others. Now based in Los Angeles, she is continuing to serve through her very popular YouTube channel, media appearances, podcast, articles, and on-demand programs such as “S.L.A.Y. Your Negotiation™ with a Narcissist” and “Breaking Free™ Divorce Masterclasses.”

May 27, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Pretending you can’t do it
  • Where resistance shows up
  • Stepping into the fear

 

Resources:

  • girlfriendsandbusiness.com
  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

Let’s talk about resistance and the various ways that it shows up in our lives. We sit in resistance longer than we need to, which only lengthens the amount of time before we get them done and create the life of our dreams. Think about the things in your life that you are avoiding right now, even though they are the very things that are going to create the life you want and grow you into the person you are meant to be.

May 26, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Determining which stories need to be told
  • Building an audience
  • Becoming known as an expert

 

Resources:

  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

Welcome back to Questionably Awesome! Today, Evans and I answer your questions about finding community and telling your story.

Haley Gray asks: What keeps me up at night, and from building the brand of my dreams, is the lack of community I have. I started my blog 9/2020 and I'm struggling finding my ideal customers and gaining traffic/following. I don’t know what to do.

Annie Rathman asks: How do you tell your story gracefully? I'm going to publish a motivational/self-help book that will detail a lot of my personal experiences and traumas. I know this will upset my family members and friends. How do I mitigate the blow or minimize the pain they experience?

 

REVIEW:

YESSIECT

Earn Your Happy Makes ME HAPPPPY!

I LOVE Lori she’s an AMAZING human and this podcast is straight up MEDICINE

May 24, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Not getting wrapped up in a timeline
  • Embracing trust and surrender
  • How your relationships are a mirror
  • Knowing when to break off a relationship
  • The power of surrender

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Danette May is one of my truest soul sisters. My book “A Tribe Called Bliss” was inspired, in part, by our relationship. Her new book, “Embrace Abundance” is out in September and is all about the path she’s discovered to better health, wealth, and fulfillment. She explains how cultivating the right relationships in your life can unlock your deepest potential.

Danette is offering everyone access to a Free Live Virtual Relationship Coaching Event (worth $597) simply for pre-ordering her book. As a VIP coach, she leads healing retreats and helps high-level execs develop their mindsets, learn to manifest, and summon intimate relationships, attracting their Soul’s Contract Connection.

Pre-orders of "Embrace Abundance" can claim their FREE TICKET to the live event at this link: embraceabundancebook.com

You can also join Danette's Relationship Coaching Event here: danettemay.com/joinmyrelationshipchallenge

 

Question Highlights:

  • When did relationships become one of your favorite topics?
  • When did you realize that your relationships needed work?
  • What does your timeline look like?
  • How do we find that feeling of trust and surrender?
  • What do you love to help people with?
  • How can you know if you need to realign or if you’re just with the wrong person?

 

Guest Bio:

Driven by a powerful calling to serve Mother Earth and her people, Danette May inspires people around the world to step up, into the true and full expression of themselves, and live their fullest potential. Her teachings and programs have transformed the lives of millions, allowing them to be their happiest and healthiest selves.

Co-founder and CCO of Mindful Health LLC, Danette has built two thriving 8-figure businesses in Earth Echo Foods and FitRise. Mindful Health LLC was recognized as No.48 on the 37th annual Inc. 5000. Danette published her first bestseller with Hay House in 2018, and “The Rise” has inspired thousands to transform their lives. Her newest book, “Embrace Abundance” launches September 14, 2021.

In addition to her signature programs, products, and best selling books, Danette shares her wisdom and simple life-hacks through interviews, keynote speeches, and mastermind sessions. She is a regular podcast guest and has been featured in several documentary films, alongside Tony Robbins, the Dalai Lama, Richard Branson, and more.

May 21, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Lesley founding OnlinePilatesClasses.com
  • Adding value with less
  • Taking messy action
  • The best organic and paid marketing

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Lesley Logan started OnlinePilatesClasses.com before the start of the pandemic, but by offering a safe way to maintain your practice at home, a way to connect with other people, and a way to establish accountability, it’s taken on a whole new level since. Now, Lesley is accelerating growth to reach the next level of impact around the world and help even more people improve their lives.

 

Question Highlights:

  • What is your best advice for organic growth?
  • What is your best advice for paid growth?

 

Guest Bio:

Lesley Logan is a fitness entrepreneur, author, mindset coach, and the founder of OnlinePilatesClasses.com. As she traveled the world to teach Pilates, she began offering online classes in 2018 because she wanted to offer something that you could take with you wherever you go. It’s easier to live life better when you create a no-excuses practice for yourself.

May 20, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Taking the necessary action
  • Getting over the fear of the unknown
  • Relying on faith

 

Resources:

  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

Buckle up; this advice blew my mind when I first heard it. It has completely changed my life and given me a sense of freedom when doing scary things. Here it is: You need to give God something to bless. If you’re not giving yourself to the miracle, leaning into faith, and taking the action required to be blessed with results, then you will not reap the expected rewards. If you lean in and apply this to your life, everything will change.

May 19, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Overthinking content creation
  • Avoiding overworking yourself

 

Resources:

  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

Welcome back to Questionably Awesome! Today, Evans and I answer your questions about creating content and finding balance.

Richele Green asks: You have great timing. I'm stuck with creating course content. I have all the knowledge, resources, and tools. Everyone thinks I'm doing great things but I can't seem to stay focused to create the content that will get me to the next level.

Ismaelite Laurore asks: Fatigue and finding the right balance between working long hours and business success. Getting professional financial help so I can focus more on my business operations than finances. Founder Dependency… I am grateful that my business is growing, but what if I end up in the hospital? I am the only one who makes everything.

 

REVIEW:

Meleahrose: “My morning cup of coffee. I cannot begin to explain how much this podcast means to me. It has gotten me through some horrible times and has also been an amazing addition to the good times. Lori helps me get in the right mindset so I can tackle any challenging time in life, whether that’s the ups and downs of being a brand new entrepreneur, having hiccups in my relationships, or getting through the day when I can’t get out of bed because of Lyme disease. There really is an episode for it all, and I cannot recommend this podcast enough! Thank you for being a beacon of light in this world Lori”

 

May 18, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • The power of visualization
  • The Circle method
  • How to manifest what you want

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

This manifestation trick is so fast, so easy, and so effective that you won’t believe it actually works. If you’re a visual thinker, this is totally going to change the game for you — even if you’re not, there are ways you can incorporate it into your life in a positive way.

Laura Day, author of “The Circle,” teaches a manifesting method similar to this — but we’ve put our own little spin on it. Here’s how it works… picture a circle in your mind with you at the center. You’re a magnet in the center of your circle. Place other things that you desire for the day in the circle. Feel them in your presence and imagine that you are attracting them to you. Just by putting them in your circle and keeping them in your mind, it will force you to take action. If you’re not a visual thinker, physically draw out a circle and hand-write what you want to attract inside of it.

That’s it! When you picture what you want, you bring it to the forefront of your mind, subconsciously encouraging yourself to take action towards those goals. It’s dead simple; imagine your circle and draw in the life that you want.

 

May 17, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • The beginning of Product Boss
  • Creating multiple streams of income
  • The three-step, multi-stream machine
  • Networking for introverts
  • Growth through pushing your fears

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

We’re talking to the powerhouse ladies behind The Product Boss, Jacqueline Snyder and Minna Khounlo-Sithep. I never thought I would have a physical product, but after talking to people, I got really excited about the potential. This is for anyone who’s thinking of launching a product, wants to grow their existing product, or is still in the early days of simply starting a business. This will spark something within you or reignite the fire that’s already burning.

 

Question Highlights:

  • What got you interested in products?
  • Why are you obsessed with creating multiple streams of income?
  • How do you know what platform is right for you?
  • What advice do you have for introverts in business?
  • What’s something that is now second nature that used to feel painful?
  • What’s a block that you want to strip away this year?

 

Guest Bio:

Jacqueline Snyder is a fashion designer and product startup expert who has helped launch over a thousand brands over the last 12 years.

Minna Khunolo-Sithep is a product business expert with a vast knowledge of Amazon and product-based growth strategies. She has a Masters of Business Administration (MBA) and over 15 years of entrepreneurial experience.

Together, they generate the force behind The Product Boss Podcast. They have grown a community of high-achieving product-based small business owners and have helped them scale their physical product businesses through masterminds, group coaching, and digital courses designed specifically for product-based business owners ranging from start-up conception to multi-million dollar companies. Together their goal is to change the landscape of product entrepreneurship by connecting women around the world through a blend of real-life business tactics, creative strategy, and modern leadership.

May 14, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Why Jennifer started Locks & Mane
  • Providing hair for people in cancer treatment
  • Not stopping at “no”
  • Embracing fear
  • Sharing the scrappy stuff

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Jennifer Parrott had struggled with her hair her whole life. She started getting extensions when she was 15 years old but she could never find a product that was all-natural, cost-effective, and non-damaging. She put together a business-plan, but put it on pause when she became pregnant with her son. While on maternity leave, she decided it was now or never and finally took the leap. Fast forward to today and she’s featured in several national retailers and still expanding! She asks how to embrace fear and discomfort, and how much she should be sharing online. We also talk about how her experience when her son contracted leukemia led to a whole new, philanthropic side of her business.

 

Questions Asked:

 

  • I know you’ve talked a lot about embracing fear and I completely subscribe to the notion that everything great sits on the other side of our fears. Can you share some tips on how to get through those uncomfortable moments and manage anxiety, as well as how to keep embracing and moving towards the things that scare us the most?
  • I really struggle with how much I should share about my personal and professional life on social media. On one side, I feel like I should keep so much private - especially the really messy stuff (i.e. skirting bankruptcy more times than I’d like to admit, how hard it is to ‘balance’ growing a company, and trying to be a good mom, wife, friend, etc.). On the other hand, I feel like it’s so important to share the bumpy road that it’s been. What are your top tips for building a personal brand? How do you manage to do such an amazing job focusing on your businesses as well as your personal brand?

 

 

Guest Bio:

Jennifer Parrott is a mom of two and the founder of Locks & Mane. Locks & Mane is one of North America’s fastest-growing luxury extension brands, making high-quality extensions fast, safe, and affordable. Locks & Mane believes in creating quality products that inspire all women to look and feel their best. You can find Locks & Mane products at HSN, Ulta Beauty, Bloomingdales… and Macy’s, later next month!

 

May 13, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Taking expansive action
  • Reframing negative words
  • Jumping into the fire

 

Resources:

  • ownit64.com
  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

When Chris and I first started our businesses, our capacity to tackle so many things at once was much lower than it is today. You don’t need to load your life up and overwhelm yourself to get better at multitasking. The more you align and discipline yourself in the way that you want, the more expansive your capacity to get things done becomes. Doing so can be difficult — it can be hard, and stressful, and overwhelming — but you can hold so much more on the other side.

May 12, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • How constant learning enriches your relationships
  • Pushing yourself outside the box
  • Approaching new friendships
  • Letting people know what you want

 

Resources:

  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

Welcome back to Questionably Awesome! Today, Evans and I answer your questions about approaching new friendships and keeping relationships interesting.

Heidi Roston asks: how do you keep a relationship exciting, fresh, and evolving in a way that interests both people?

Tayla Babakaiff asks: how do I approach a new, female relationship from the beginning, letting them know I don't just want a surface-level friendship, but want to grow, be challenged, and cheered on by a bestie?!

May 11, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • How to have tough conversations with your partner
  • What we did when we lost it all
  • Taking ownership of your situation

 

Resources:

  • ownit64.com
  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

It can be really hard to break tough news to your partner. When Chris lost his job in 2008, he had to come home and tell me not only that news, but that our finances weren’t in order and we were going to lose everything. It’s one of those moments that scars you — you never forget it.

We’re going to relive one of the hardest moments of our lives because we think there’s value to be had in that moment. It’s less about breaking the news itself and more about assessing where you’re at and deciding what to do with the information you find. Here’s what happened next for us:

Chris came home and told me that we would have to sell our brand new house, our cars, everything, and move into a small apartment. And I responded with two things. First, I said “Then that’s what we have to do.” And second, I said “This will never happen to us again.”

It was then that we decided to enter the knowledge industry. I started teaching online courses with the goal of finding just one hundred women to join me monthly. When that took off, I realized the one thing all these women had in common was that they needed support, so I created The Bliss Project. That led to The Bliss Habit, a way to take that same idea to the people who couldn’t make it to the event.

No matter where you are in your journey, it’s not too late to take control of your future.

May 10, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Giving your pain purpose
  • Learning to deal with grief
  • Helping others through hard times
  • Moving from fear to freedom
  • Reframing your thoughts
  • Reimagining your future

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Get ready for some life shifts, because it’s bound to happen any time Ashley LeMieux speaks. She’s a genius businesswoman and she’s gone through so much in her life. Her worldview is going to help you so much in whatever it is you’re going through. She shares her stories of grief and tragedy and how she’s overcome them. She also gives advice on helping others as they deal with grief, how to reframe your thoughts, and how to live in the balance between joy and pain.

 

Question Highlights:

  • What have the last few years of your life been like?
  • What’s some advice for someone to step in and help someone going through a rough time?
  • Why did you choose to talk about moving from fear to freedom?
  • How do you reimagine your future?
  • How do you make the decisions that are going to make tomorrow a better day?

 

Guest Bio:

Ashley LeMieux is the founder and CEO of The Shine Project and the author of two books, Born to Shine and I Am Here. The Shine Project is an online community for women that helps them find support, resources, motivation, and encouragement to triumph over the challenges in their lives. She has empowered thousands of women to find purpose in their pain and find the courage to keep going. She is the host of The I Am Podcast, and her passion for youth in the foster care system has put her on the board of directors for National Angles. She lives in Phoenix with her husband and crazy puppy, Honey.

May 7, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Why you need an elevator pitch
  • Understanding the impact you want to make
  • Dialing in your income goals
  • Giving people a community

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Danielle Throckmorton is a multi-business owner who is now pivoting into supporting other women through coaching and accountability to take their own lives and businesses to new heights. She’s ready to step her own business acumen up to the next level as well, but struggling with charging more for her services when she truly wants to impact as many people as possible. We discuss how she can hit her income goals while charging what she’s worth while creating the impact she wants.

 

Question Asked:

  • What would you do to hone my income with the impact that I want to make?

 

Guest Bio:

Danielle Throckmorton went from teen mom, college drop out to 7x award-winning independent business owner, accountability coach for female leaders, and founder of Reach Retreat. Her mission is to help women uncover what they truly desire for their life, and then provide them with the support, tools, and resources necessary to live it out.

May 6, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • The danger of opposing beliefs
  • Reimagining what it could look like
  • Getting to the root of your fear

 

Resources:

  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

Are you holding dueling desires? It can be so easy to want something on the one hand, but be subconsciously afraid of what happens when we get it on the other. If we don’t get to the root of that disparity, we will constantly be creating and canceling out that thing that we want. Let’s talk about how you can support your dreams without letting fear get in the way.

May 5, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • When to follow up on a “No”
  • Taking the emotion out of asking
  • Showing your worth through results

 

Resources:

  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

Welcome back to Questionably Awesome! Today, Evans and I answer your questions about following up on a “No” and negotiating your worth.

Mara Casler asks: How do you approach asking for what you want, after you've been told “No”? How long do you wait to ask again?

Elizabeth Johnson asks: How do I negotiate for the salary and benefits (equity in the comp!) that I want/deserve when I have only a handful of years of experience on my side? Sometimes people place a higher value on years of experience over quality of present work! (I'm measurably more valuable than some folks who've been in the biz for more time.)

May 4, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • How limiting beliefs are holding you back
  • Dealing with anxiety
  • Falling into comparison
  • Knowing your worth
  • Being okay with failure
  • Sharing your story
  • Accepting change

 

Resources:

  • ownit64.com
  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

Everyone has some limiting beliefs that are holding us back from getting where we want to go. Sometimes the hardest part of getting through your journey is finding a way to move past those beliefs. We are going to share three limiting beliefs each that we’ve had to go through in order to be where we are today.

 

Lori:

  • Anxiety and panic attacks. Every time she would get in front of people she would feel like she couldn’t breathe, starting as far back as 7th grade.
  • Not understanding your worth. It can feel scary to charge what you should when providing a product or service without undercutting yourself. If you’re resentful for the time you’re putting in without compensation then something is out of alignment.
  • Fear of sharing your story. It can be hard when you’re trying to be authentic but you know that sharing details about your life are going to have an impact on other people.

 

Chris:

  • Fear of comparison. When Chris was preparing to launch For the Love of Money, he kept putting it off because he couldn’t stop comparing himself to other brands that were further along. You want to surround yourself with people who motivate you, but you have to be able to step through that fear and do it anyway.
  • Fear of failure. Chris would set big sales goals but worry about the blowback that would come if he didn’t hit them. The irony is that he’s rarely hit the sales goal he set, but that didn’t mean they weren’t successful and still worth doing.
  • Fear of change. This comes along when you are afraid of losing the good life you have in the pursuit of a great life.

Strategy is everywhere. It’s easy to find. But what’s really holding most people back is their belief in their ability to do it. So take a look at the limiting beliefs that are holding you back and tell yourself “This isn’t true.” Only then can you move forward into your highest self.

May 3, 2021

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Becoming a money magnet
  • Earned income vs. investment income
  • Blaming, complaining, and justifying
  • Writing new truths in your life
  • Improving your environment
  • Reinforcing your dreams

 

Resources:

  • ownit64.com
  • Text PODCAST to 310-496-8363 to get your questions answered on our Q&A segment or get coached on the show!

 

Show Notes:

We were not always money magnets. In fact, both of us repelled money in different ways for much of our lives. It takes financial motivation AND education in order to both make money and hold onto it. We’re going to go over four things you can do to become a money magnet:

 

  • Clearing out the old to take your power back. When you’re blaming others, or your past, you don’t do the work to take ownership of your future. It’s your choice, alone, to clear out the old, unnecessary thoughts and beliefs holding you back.
  • Decide to become educated and motivated. One of the best ways to do this is through reading books and listening to podcasts — take advantage of free resources.
  • Curate and control your environment. Your environment, meaning the people, places, and propaganda you are surrounded by, have a huge impact on your mindset. The people in your life are either enforcing your dreams or unwittingly sacrificing them.
  • Reinforce your new patterns and beliefs. You need accountability partners. You need to measure what matters. You need to journal your actions and thoughts. Visualize where you want to be.

 

 

Everybody can do these four things. There are no barriers to entry other than doing the work. Follow these to break those old financial habits and become a money magnet.

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