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Earn Your Happy

Get all the inside secrets and tools you need to help you bust through your fears, connect to your soul and get focused and clear so you can elevate your life, business and relationships… Listen in as Lori Harder, founder of the Bliss Project, 3X time fitness world champion, fitness expert and cover model, turned self love junkie - lifestyle entrepreneur and author digs in shares the goods! Each episode is designed to give you the tools, ideas, and inspiration to take action in your life. Tune in for an inspirational guest, a story or a "quickie" of motivation to get you out of a funk or blast you even further on your rockstar journey! Stop waiting until you are happy and go out and earn it! I promise to make sure we have some fun along the way - you can't take this life too serious. It's time to fall in love with the process and take back your control! Oh and please make sure to share the episodes that give you goosebumps and leave us a review!
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Now displaying: October, 2019
Oct 31, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-How the best things in life come from things that expand you before you feel ready.

-Sharing your negativity to move past it

-How to deal when you get a nasty email or comment in your DMs

 

Resources:

-Learn more: eventluv.com

-Learn more: The Bliss Project

-Read: A Tribe Called Bliss

 

Show Notes:

The best things in life are going to come from things that scare you. We pray for massive expansion. We want to hold these incredibly huge visions, except when we get put into the exact thing that is going to expand us. A lot of us say, get me out of here. I can't do it. This is too much. I'm not sure of myself. What about my past? What are people going to say? And we don't sit long enough in the fire to let it burn away our old form and let us stretch into the person that can handle the dream. Today I’m talking all about staying in the discomfort in order to get through it and through to the other side. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

Oct 30, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

-Evans’ impending nuptials and why she needs to schedule in cleaning out her closet

-Lori’s former addiction to acting from a place of hurt

-Conversations to have before you get married

-Committing to resolving problems in your marriage

 

Resources:

-Learn more: The Bliss Project

-Learn more: eventluv.com

-Read: A Tribe Called Bliss

-Read: The War of Art

 

Show Notes:

Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about resistance. We cover how to love yourself into making better decisions, how to make a decision and move on without second-guessing plus how to pause to make sure you’re in control of your emotions so you don’t act from a place of chemical reaction in your body.

 

Review of the Week:

Aliciasep

Holy crap I’ve never felt closer to y’all! I love the show! Been listening for over a year and finally getting around to leaving a review. Just listened to a Questionably Awesome about leveling up where you talked about going home - specifically how you feel like you have to rush to get home and sit with family, and then they talk about their new shelf! I thought it was just me and it’s cool to hear that you all experience that. Also, why is that even a thing!? Anyway, love your podcast and random tangents. Makes me feel like I’m just listening to people I want to be friends with. Btw, can we be friends?! -Alicia

 

Question 1:

@meg_cole_

How do you push through towards your goals when the resistance is SO STRONG?

 

Question 2:

@acadiachampagne

How do you stop self-sabotaging once you recognize you're the problem?

Oct 28, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course
  • Protecting your creativity in a busy environment like L.A.
  • How Makenzie grew up watching the Food Network
  • Mirror therapy
  • Surrendering to a vision and the guidance of the universe
  • Seeking shareholders who share her vision

 

Resources:

 

 

 

Show Notes:

Makenzie Marzluff is the founder of Delighted By, a high-vibe, better-for-you dessert company. But before that she studied pre-med, moved to Australia for 2.5 years and did a bunch of inner work. When searching for her purpose at the end of her healing journey she heard a message that said, “Makenzie, your purpose is to spread your glitter. It doesn't matter what you do, it matters how you do it.” Join us for this conversation about consciously raising capital, running a business intuitively and why Makenzie’s so passionate about entrepreneurs who are committed to their own healing. 




Question Highlights:

  • Why is living in Maui so good for your nervous system? 
  • What does leading your business 100% from intuition look like?
  • When you were raising capital for your business, did you start with your vision or the product?
  • What would you say to those people who are waiting to find their business?

 

Guest Bio:

Makenzie Marzluff is the founder of Delighted By, a high-vibe, better-for-you dessert company, and is most well known for inventing ‘dessert hummus’ in 2015. She went from living in a van and starting the company on her credit cards, to running a multimillion-dollar, women-led organization. Makenzie’s company was featured on ABC’s Shark Tank, as well as hundreds of outlets across the globe including Cosmo, Live with Kelly, Good Morning America, Oprah Magazine and Women’s Health.

 

Makenzie is out to infuse love and light into the supply chain of the food industry by leading in ways that are definitely not talked about in business school. She is launching her book How To Lead A Badass Business From The Heart later this year, and is out to inspire entrepreneurs to follow their fear, surrender to their bigger vision, and leave a legacy of love by spreading their unique ‘glitter’ in the world.

Oct 24, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Unlocking that part of you that's been hidden away
  • Shining our light, even when it’s not well received
  • Forgiving yourself and other people
  • Not being a match for negativity and fear
  • Staying in joy

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Whether you are being bullied online, whether you have a friend who is questioning who you are as you grow, or whether you are completely doubting yourself and not feeling smart enough, these are all opportunities to shine. I recently had an experience that I might share more about later. In the past, I would have gone to a very dark place and it would have taken me down for a really long time. This time I was able to bounce right back knowing that it is not our place to feel bad. We are meant to stay in joy because that's where we get outside of our heads and our small worlds. We expand, we grow and we give our talents, our efforts and our money to people. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

Oct 23, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • When Lori got her tongue pierced
  • Screaming into pillows
  • Putting things on the line
  • How sleep is so underrated

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about resistance. In moments of resistance I feel like my inner toddler’s having a temper tantrum and it wants to do anything but the thing I have to do. But I know if I can just sit through the resistance, there's a huge reward on the other side.

 

Review of the Week:

TracyNadler

You and Evans are seriously so hilarious! I eagerly await every Wednesday to hear your silliness, humor and sound advice! Your podcast makes me literally laugh out loud and puts so much joy in my heart. I love how you combine humor with self help and are just being yourselves! It’s so refreshing to listen to - I wish I could hear you everyday - like I’m not kidding you could have a morning show just like Hoda and Kathie Lee (now Jenna.). Thank you for showing up as YOU and providing laughter and wisdom to my day! 😊❤️


Question 1:

@errrnmarieee

How do I have all the pieces and support I need to "do this thing" but I still don't do it?!


Question 2:

@michelleofitness

How do you quickly identify resistant behavior, thoughts and paradigms and redirect the energy?

 

Question 3:

@rebekahmanella

How do you work through the discomfort when resistance resents as anxiety or panic?

Oct 21, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course
  • Why Jordan’s childhood garage was full of gumball machines
  • The currency of clarity
  • Micro steps to success
  • The 10 foot rule
  • Jordan’s book, Own Your Everyday 

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Jordan Dooley’s approach to life is all about showing up everyday and not waiting for the massive signs from the heavens. She schedules herself reminders to listen to God, abides by a no-phone rule in her and her husband’s bedroom, and believes that if we are always burning out, we’re not going to reach our full potential. Tune into this conversation to hear about getting the lessons you need, even if the outcome is unexpected. 

 

Question Highlights:

  • What did the road to finding what you wanted look like?
  • When do we start to take it upon ourselves to start knocking on other doors and really creating our own destiny?
  • How do we start showing up for the little things in our life in order for us to be able to show up for the big stuff?
  • How do you invite God into your goals?
  • How do you deal with judgment, comparison, distraction, all of the things that can happen when we are online?
  • Who needs to read your book?

 

Guest Bio:

Jordan Lee Dooley loves and lives with a buoyant effervescence. She is an in-demand speaker, blogger, SHE Podcast host, entrepreneur and author who has created numerous resources to fuel the areas of life she feels most passionate about, including self-care and

wellness, business and entrepreneurship, and faith. Most recently she has published a book called Own Your Everyday, a girlfriend’s guide to a purpose-driven life.

Oct 17, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Being addicted to distraction and drama
  • How to pause and let go of the small stuff
  • Playing decisions out to the end
  • Accepting responsibility for our mistakes
  • How Lori tried to make her husband her everything best friend 
  • Eventluv, Lindsey and Lori’s 5-day workshop

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

In this episode Lindsey Schwartz joins me to talk all about stopping petty things get in our way. We share our personal experiences of being kind of addicted to the drama of people saying bad things about us. It is only through stepping into our highest purpose that we have learnt to let this small stuff and other people’s opinions of us go. Don’t miss this conversation if you are longing for a best friend, if you have trouble trusting women or if you find yourself pleasing other people more than yourself. 

 

Guest Bio:

Lindsey Schwartz is an entrepreneur, top podcast host, and best-selling author. She is the creator of the popular Powerhouse Women brand, podcast, events, and community. Lindsey has not only been running her own profitable events for the past three years, but she’s been attending, volunteering and helping run events behind the scenes for nearly a decade. She’s never been “too good” to play any role in producing an event and is the first person to support her friends in their endeavors. She prides herself on knowing the ins and outs of how heart-centered events should run, and understanding how to gain the attention of the media and get people excited about whatever she’s involved in.

After being behind the scenes for years helping to produce successful events, Lindsey knew that, despite her fears, it was time to come out from behind the curtain. With her ability, knowledge, charisma and attitude of “everything can be figured out” she launched her annual Powerhouse Women event and it took off. Her Powerhouse Women events have become top events in the business and personal growth world, helping countless women launch the brand or passion project of their dreams. She is a sought-after speaker, traveling around the world teaching and helping other women host their own events so they can create the community and careers they’ve always dreamed of.



Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

Oct 16, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Evans’ dog’s new ACL
  • If you’re being multi passionate or just doing too much
  • Placing unfair expectations on your partner
  • Sending people love even when they hurt you
  • Putting too much value on the opinions of others 
  • Giving yourself grace in busy seasons

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Time for another Q&A Day. Today Evans and I are joined by Lindsey Schwartz. Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, we’re talking all about embracing change. We cover how to take action even when you’re not sure what your true purpose is and how to know when to stick at something or give it up.

 

Review of the Week:

morganbarkus

My favorite shit show on FIRE! The last month has felt like falling down that Alice in Wonderland hole for me. There’s a welcome change waiting for me, but the interim has been a challenge. My saving grace? Questionably Awesome. Every episode, downloaded, and playing in the background all day, every day. For real. I love the friendship between you and Evans, the laughs, perspective, and fantastically honest and hilarious one liners. One of my favorites being, “Because I’m just a shit show on fire 99% of the time.” I look forward to Wednesdays very much!


Question 1: 

@meg_cole_

How many things is too many things to have on the go? I have so mnay new, fun things I'm into

 

Question 2:

@nicoledholguin

What if I want to throw in the towel on one business and start another?

 

Question 3:

@lovemissjess

I'd love to hear about changing even when your spouse isn't ready.

 

Question 4:

@tima922

What do you do when people think you're changing, but you know you're stepping back into yourself?

 

Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

Oct 14, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course
  • Lindsey Schwartz and Lori’s 5-day immersive workshop on how to run profitable events, retreats or masterminds
  • How Ashley turned the trauma of losing her kids into power
  • The difference between pain and suffering
  • Trusting the process of life
  • Clarity mapping
  • Ashley’s book, Born To Shine

 

Resources:

 

 

 

Show Notes:

Six years ago Ashley LeMieux and her husband got a phone call asking them to become parents of a six-year-old and a four-year-old. They weren’t looking to adopt or foster at the time, but they said yes, and their life became all about their new family. During the final stages of the adoption process they experienced an unexpected contested adoption, which meant that they spent over a year and a half in court fighting to keep their family together. In the end the kids were taken from them with 12 hours notice and Ashley and her husband were not even allowed to tell the kids they weren’t coming home. Ashley says the past two years have been filled with her trying to figure out how to find a life again after it was all taken away. She felt buried by pain for so long she couldn’t work out how to move forward, but her journey through that has ignited everything she’s doing now. To begin she started a morning routine that added purpose back into her day. She wanted to write a book about her experiences and, after 30 different publishers said no, she figured out that no-one else’s opinion mattered and did it anyway. Her book, Born To Shine, shares stories, lessons, and practical tools to help women shine despite the darkness, to press forward one day at a time even when there is no end in sight, and to turn their most painful moments into their greatest teachers and signposts to true, deep, unassailable joy.

 

Question Highlights:

  • How do you find closure when you couldn’t say goodbye to your kids?
  • Was writing your book therapeutic?
  • What should people do when they can’t see a way out of suffering?
  • How can we believe in the significance of our story? 
  • How do we bring divine ideas to life and have faith in them even when they've lost their excitement?

 

Guest Bio:

Ashley LeMieux is an author, sought-after public speaker, and wildly successful lifestyle influencer. She's the founder of the online community, The Shine Project, where she creates resources and tools that have ignited a path of clarity and fulfillment for hundreds of thousands of women around the world. Through her fashion and lifestyle brand, Shop Ashley LeMieux, she empowers "Women Who Do" to show up confidently and courageously to their lives. She believes that you can turn your pain into your power.

 

Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

Oct 10, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • The superpower of sharing your truth
  • Making yourself proud
  • Being grateful for your present but believing in a better future

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Today’s podcast is all about getting out of your own way because you have bigger fish to fry. You can’t play small anymore, you can’t live for other people and you can’t keep waiting for someone else to save you. That thing that you think just stopping you is your power. For me it was my anxiety, even though it was debilitating, and I told myself I couldn't do what I wanted because of it. Our superpower is to really share where we're at, and to share our truth and share that we're nervous and to remember that we're all in this human experience together. You can’t say the wrong thing to the right people, so get out there, find your audience, and live the life you want! I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

 

Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

Oct 9, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Having dinner with Gary Vee
  • Why we’re not actually scared of failing
  • The pitfalls of people pleasing
  • Accepting that people evolve differently and at different times
  • Sabotaging those moments of puppies kissing in the sunset
  • How our brain is addicted to the chemicals that we feed it the most

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about embracing change. We cover how to accept that change is going to be for your highest good, how to let go of the need for approval and how to train your brain so that you don’t self-sabotage.



Review of the Week:

Stephanatey

So much fun and love and relevant! Lori ! You and Evans are so fun to listen to! It brought me right back to when you were a bride to be and Angela sprayed perfume in my eye, lol. A lot of fun and laughs .. but it’s more than that, you have such great messages and help people to feel empowered and figure out their own solutions. Loved your Moon voice and bit! You’re hilarious and so is Evans. I’ve been binge listening while working and laughing out loud. Trying to get into a great place and space for some big stuff coming up in my life, and listening to the podcast is helping me get there.

 

Question 1:

@cbello4410

Change is awesome, however scary... How do you push through the anxiety of it all?

 

Question 2:

@boundarygoddess

How do you deal with the fear of your loved ones' judgement?

 

Question 3:

@allypatras

How do you stop old patterns from sneaking in while trying to embrace change?

Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

Oct 7, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Chris and Lori’s Become Aligned course
  • Why Kate tracks her menstrual cycle
  • Embracing non-creative periods in life
  • Making more money while doing less
  • The 80/20 rule
  • Seeing the day as a circle
  • Using ovulation to help us take inspired action in targeted ways
  • The practice and the philosophy of biomimicry 
  • Kate’s bliss menu

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Kate Northrup is an entrepreneur, bestselling author, speaker, and mother. Her new book, Do Less: A Revolutionary Approach to Time and Energy Management for Busy Moms, is the story of how she cut her work hours in half and actually made more money. In this episode, Kate and I dive deep into the intersections between women’s bodies and business and how we can use our bodies to fuel our deepest insights, impact and profits. This conversation is a must-listen if you are overwhelmed, don’t know what to prioritize and know you’re not working from a state of bliss.



Question Highlights:

  • When you started working less, how did you work out what was most important?
  • How do we guard empty space without feeling bad? 
  • Do we have to have seasons where we’re riding on the rocket ship and being super busy?
  • What is egg wisdom, and how can it help us attract what we want?
  • How can people simplify what they’re doing in order to work less?
  • What should we do when we have a big idea but we’re afraid of the work involved? 

 

Guest Bio:

Kate Northrup is an entrepreneur, bestselling author, speaker, and mother. With her husband, Mike Watts, she has built a multimedia digital empire that reaches hundreds of thousands globally. They are committed to supporting ambitious women to light up the world without burning themselves out in the process. Kate also has a membership group, Origin® Collective, that helps more than 1,000 entrepreneurs infuse more feminine energy into their businesses and reclaim their time. She has also helped over 5,000 students heal their relationship with money with her signature Money Love Course. Her first book, Money: A Love Story, has been published in five languages, and her second book, Do Less: A Revolutionary Approach to Time and Energy Management for Busy Moms, is now available. 


Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

Oct 3, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Being grateful for challenging people and the resistance in your life
  • The side effects of not following your calling - anger, resentment and depression
  • Tapping into the energy of your purpose
  • Creating a life you cannot hide from

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Today I’m talking about the side effects of following your calling. But first I want to talk about the side effects of not following your calling. If you’re not taking actions that support your highest self, you get resentful toward yourself, the people that you love of other people and people who are inspiring to you. You feel anger, anxiety, isolation, comparison, and depression. The most important thing you can do is to really take note of how you're holding yourself back and learn to move forward. But moving forward isn’t pain-free either. You’ll feel discomfort and massive fear. You’ll make new friends and mentors but they won’t let you hide. You’ll lose people along the way. But at the end of your life you won’t be wishing you’d done things differently. I hope today’s quickie serves as a reminder or way for you to be able to get back to the heart-centered reason of WHY you’re working on your dreams.

Earn Your Happy is a production of Crate Media

Oct 2, 2019

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Evans’ new job
  • Why you can’t wait around for signs
  • Reframing the mundane
  • How there’s super irritating, boring parts to every job
  • Leaving people and good jobs behind
  • Why your purpose won’t be the same forever

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes:

Time for another Q&A Day with me and Evans! Listen in as we answer questions that you have sent in, and hear our favorite quotes of the moment! In today’s “questionably awesome” episode, Evans and I are talking all about purpose. We cover how to know when it’s time to move on from something that isn’t right for you and how to find your purpose by following your curiosities and taking action. 

 

Review of the Week:

MarieofVenus

Lori’s podcast has been so life changing for me. She’s been helping me navigate my life for a couple of years now, and her content is always so relative, inspiring, and exactly what I need at the time I listen. Her objective approach, transparency, vulnerability, and vibrant sense of humor make her relatable while helping you realize that we are all human, and that we can all reach amazing levels of purpose and prosperity (in all forms). Thank you, thank you, thank you for continuing to show up, creating awareness, and helping us challenge ourselves to live bigger lives. 💗

 

Question 1:

@tay_pelletier

How do you separate and clarify your purpose from passion?

 

Question 2:

@cbello4410

How do you figure out your purpose? I know I'm here for greater things but I don't know what.

 

Question 3:

@sigsfitbits

How do you know if it's your purpose for right now or your forever purpose?

@wanderingherbackroad

Did you ever feel you had to leave someone behind to commit to your purpose?


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