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Earn Your Happy

Get all the inside secrets and tools you need to help you bust through your fears, connect to your soul and get focused and clear so you can elevate your life, business and relationships… Listen in as Lori Harder, founder of the Bliss Project, 3X time fitness world champion, fitness expert and cover model, turned self love junkie - lifestyle entrepreneur and author digs in shares the goods! Each episode is designed to give you the tools, ideas, and inspiration to take action in your life. Tune in for an inspirational guest, a story or a "quickie" of motivation to get you out of a funk or blast you even further on your rockstar journey! Stop waiting until you are happy and go out and earn it! I promise to make sure we have some fun along the way - you can't take this life too serious. It's time to fall in love with the process and take back your control! Oh and please make sure to share the episodes that give you goosebumps and leave us a review!
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Nov 29, 2018

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Grace during the holiday season
  • Expectations put upon us
  • Why you should stop trying to be enough
  • Teaching people how to treat you

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

Today I felt it really necessary to talk about expectations and not being enough. We are going to flip the script a bit today though, and rather than talk about our own expectations, we are going to chat about the expectations that people have on us. On the book tour, I noticed that there were so many people who felt this nagging expectation from people in their past to keep showing up how they used to show up. We’ve all heard it, “Oh, you aren’t the same person.” Well today, I’m going to free you from that–I’m giving you the permission to disappoint other people.

I also wanted to remind you to get your tickets to The Bliss Project, coming to Newport Beach, CA this March. It is going to be an incredible weekend of complete life transformation & immersion!

 

Quotes

“”The more grace that you can have with yourself, and let go of those expectations, and just say, “You know what, I’m going to be really present and I’m just going to stay in motion.””

 

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Nov 28, 2018

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • How the Tribe Called Bliss book tour went
  • Asking for help
  • Expectations + grace
  • Books + Podcasts Lori loves
  • Going from an idea to reality
  • Body image and self-worth

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

Welcome to another Q&A Day with my Q&A co-host and assistant, Evans! These episodes are always fun because I get to answer questions from all of you, and it helps me feel even more connected to this incredible community. Evans and I also share great quotes that are really speaking to us–and a few laughs, too! Today we are also sharing our experience from the Tribe Called Bliss book tour.

 

Question Highlights:

  • @sheryl_scranton: “What is your most life-changing book? What are you currently reading? What’s your favorite podcast?”
  • @empowermentwithelizabeth: “I’m planning a retreat and I’m curious about the process of Bliss Project–how you went from the idea to executing it. How did it get from an idea to reality?”
  • @victoriaevansofficial: “How do you seperate your physique from your self-worth? I’m really struggling right now not to put so much value on my body after losing weight. I’m having a hard time seeing myself as my body. Did you ever struggle with this as you were competing in fitness?”  

 

Review of the Week:

“Lori, I can’t thank you enough for what both your book and podcast have done for me. When I went through a messy breakup with my ex, one of my friends/fellow coaches suggested this book to me and your podcast. I’ll be honest, at first I was apprehensive. So many friendships and relationships have been burnt in my life, why light another candle and redevelop a tribe? But, you’ve given me the courage to be brave, to step up, and to anoint my own dang self with self-love, encouragement, bravery, and replacement of negativity, fear, judgement, etc. With positivity, compassion, understanding, I’m excited to see where your journey takes you because you’ve helped so many of us and deserve the best. Keep rockin it sista!”

@katie671

 

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Nov 26, 2018

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • How Niyc found positive psychology
  • The day of Niyc’s own awakening
  • How Kundalini yoga has been a game changer
  • Niyc’s way of creating an event
  • How she found her value
  • Her book writing journey
  • Giving and receiving permission
  • Happiness pie

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

Today I am joined by the amazing Niyc Pidgeon, a positive psychologist, success coach, international speaker, and author of Now Is Your Time. Niyc is obsessed with empowering women to create more joy, and unstoppable success within themselves and their businesses. Yes please! We talk all about her awakening, what sparked her interest in positive psychology, and how she found her own value. The conversation we have is epic, and I can’t wait for you all to benefit from all we talk about.

 

Question Highlights:

  • Did you notice that you had work to do around your lack/money mindset?
  • What was a big thing that helped you switch the lens you viewed through?
  • What does your life look like now?
  • What are some of the main things that are helping the women that come to you?
  • How do you start to create an event or container?
  • How did you find your value?
  • What did your journey look like while writing a book?
  • What is the most exciting thing in your life right now?
  • Was there a theme for what was blocking women this year?
  • How did you start your million dollar business?

 

Quotes

“Positive psychology is like a breath of fresh air and it focuses on human strength and virtue and what we do right as people, rather than what we do wrong.”

“I had to do a lot of personal growth before I even recognized I had a negative money mindset.”

“I’ve learned in life and business to go towards the ease, to lean into where the energy is.”

 

Niyc Pidgeon, a Positive Psychologist MSc BSc CTLLS IPPA, Award Winning Best Selling Hay House Author “Now Is Your Chance”, International Speaker, and Certified High Performance & Success Coach CHPC, from Newcastle upon Tyne in the UK with a big heart, a big vision, and a big mission. Her aim is to help a million women change their lives using Positive Psychology by the year 2020, and she’s well on her way to creating that.  

She is proud to have already created a business with a global reach, helping tens of thousands of people around the world to access the strength inside of them, to step up and be, do, create, and have more!

Through her best selling book, Now Is Your Chance, her personal coaching programs, and online Now Is Your Chance community, Niyc is helping you help yourself by equipping you with the tangible tools, and personal learnings that can really help you make a positive difference in your life

 

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Nov 22, 2018

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • How to care + make an impact
  • We all have superpowers
  • Releasing our energetic cords
  • Forgiving yourself + others

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

Today, I want to talk about focus. So many of us believe that we have to care about every little thing, and that our value is determined by just how caring we are. This causes so much scattered focus, leading to us actually not doing anything for what we truly care about. We are going to talk about our superpowers and energetic cords, and how to release them in order to move forward.

 

Quotes

"If you’re aiming at nothing, you’re certain to hit it.”

“When we forgive someone, it’s not for them, it is for us.”

“Your thoughts are energy.”

 

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Nov 21, 2018

In This Episode You Will Hear About:

  • The upcoming Bliss Project
  • Reevaluating your habits
  • Quotes we are loving
  • How to know what your next goal is
  • Preparing yourself to be an epic human

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

We are having another Q&A day today, so I’m joined by my lovely assistant, Evans, to answer questions sent in by you! I also wanted to remind you to get your tickets to The Bliss Project, coming to Newport Beach, CA this March. It is going to be an incredible weekend of complete life transformation & immersion. Tickets are over half sold out– I want to make sure you can get yours before they are gone!

 

Questions:

  • “How do you train your brain to be productive even when you’re not feeling it?”
    • From: _angela_jones
  • “How do you know what your next goal is? How do you prepare yourself for the day to be an epic human being?”
    • From: kathleenparent.ca

 

Quotes

"I only hang around people who feed my vision now.”

“You would be amazed at what opens up for you when you actually start following the energy and the creativity.”

 

Review of the Week:

“Lori Harder knows what’s up and speaks to my soul. If you’re on a journey to truly love yourself and find your happy, you absolutely need to have this podcast in your life!”

@goldandgoodvibes

 

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Nov 19, 2018

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • Setting invocations for groups
  • Reprogramming yourself; why you should + how
  • Imposter syndrome
  • Speaking your truth
  • Finding what it authentic to you
  • Erin’s belief on judgement
  • Freeing yourself around relationships
  • Needing love and attention
  • Ultimate truths + relative truths
  • Different boundaries in friendships
  • Traditional ministry + what Erin’s ministry looks like
  • All about Erin’s book, Awakening
  • Ending benediction from Dr. Erin

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

I am beyond excited to share this episode with each one of you, especially if you’re ready for incredible wisdom to totally pierce your soul, because today I am joined by Dr. Erin Haskell. Dr. Erin Haskell is the creator and host of Good Morning LALALAND, a live streaming television show focused on reporting good news and inspiration. She has so much truth, light, and intention in all that she does. Erin is an all around go-getter and spectacular woman, and I knew she would be a great guest to have on the show.

In this conversation, we talk about how Erin likes to start off all of her meetings with an invocation for the group, plus she shares her story and how she found her way to being the Doctor of Divinity. We go deep into how and why we should reprogram ourselves from past stories and traumas, and releasing fears and anxieties. Erin also shares ways that we can work on ourselves in relationships, how to free yourself from judgement, and both finding and understanding our own truths.

This conversation moved me, and truly shifted my soul. I can’t wait for you all to listen and have a little piece of Dr. Erin in your life today, too.

 

Question Highlights:

  • What was the pivot from darkness to the first step out of darkness?
  • How do we gain the willingness to look + start working on reprogramming?
  • What is the best way to release fear and impostor syndrome?
  • How do you allow you to show up for yourself?
  • What to do around finding your truth without the judgement?
  • How can you free people up around relationships?
  • What can we think of to get back to a neutral state in order to make decisions when in relationships?
  • What is an ultimate truth? A relative truth?
  • What type of ministry does Erin practice?
  • What is Erin’s book, Awakening, about?

 

Quotes

"All those judgements, al that stacking up of self-judgement, and that gets triggered when we are touching on our greatness."

"Relatives truths are what’s true for you."

"You are here to judge; you’re here to say what works for you and what doesn’t work for you."

“That is the highest stance is to not make anyone wrong.”

“When you do your own work, everyone around you transforms instantaneously.”

“We need to have fun, we need to play, but we need to remember what we’re here for which is really… we’re here to do work.”

 

Dr. Erin Fall Haskell, Doctor of Divinity, New Thought Leader, Transformational Author and Speaker, Conscious Entrepreneur, Global Peace Leader Award 2016, Mother and Lover of Life!

Erin lives in Los Angeles, where she is featured in television, radio, magazines, and top blogs as the expert “Spiritual Coach.” She is the “Dear Abby” of the consciousness movement where she focuses on bringing fun to “The Shift” in La La Land. After many years of counseling top celebrities and Grammy winners she wanted to bring her programs to the masses. Her book Awakening; A 30-Day Guide to Unleashing Your Inner Guru, comes to bookstores near you in 2017. Claiming her birthright of prosperity and abundance, she is a self-made millionaire and an active philanthropist. Bottom line, she attributes her happiness and fulfillment to the spiritual truth, which is not just knowing the universal truth, but living it!

“There are moments in life when something happens, life alters, and your entire perception transforms instantaneously.” For Erin, that moment was 22 years ago when she was holding her stillborn son in her arms, just after giving birth to him. “Tears were streaming down my face as I looked at his beautiful body and realized his body was still there, but he wasn’t. I realized he wasn’t his body; he is a spiritual being. One can conceptually understand that we are not these bodies, but I got it on an entirely different level, my entire world crumbled, delivering me to spiritual revelation.” This sent her on an intense spiritual quest traveling around the world, discovering truths and working with gurus and spiritual masters learning how to live and embody the truths that had been revealed.

 

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Nov 15, 2018

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • The current Tribe Called Bliss book tour
  • Why “the messy stuff” is good for you

 

Show Notes

Messy is a part of everything. It’s vital to be messy in the beginning. We don’t get the good ideas if it’s NOT messy.

A lot of times we stop ourselves from doing things because we think about the things that we DON’T want to happen; the worst case scenario parts.  But we need to focus and change our perspective around this.

So many of us are stuck in those thoughts that you’re literally it won’t even allow yourself to move forward.  START! Start Googling, take the next action to make the path less scary.

Your mantra for this time is: “I’m going to leap, it’s going to be messy, and that is going to be perfect.”

 

Quotes

"I’m going to leap, it’s going to be messy, and that is going to be perfect."

 

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Nov 14, 2018

In this episode we talk about:

  • Evans and I reminisce about our Oprah Cruise last week and talk about some of the things we learned while traveling.
  • Answers to a bunch of questions from YOU.
  • Back-up plans for your life
  • How to change the story you feel about how OTHERS view you.
  • How to deal with setbacks

 

Questions Answered in This Episode:

  • “Please talk about back-up plans. I feel like having one is telling the universe that it’s ok for me to NOT live out my passion.  I am super conflicted with this and would love to hear your thoughts!” - Holly Dorfman
  • “I’ve been gossiped about, not cheered on, etc by other women so I have a bad story about women in my life. How did you change the story about how women see you?” -Amy Burnes
  • “How can you sustain self-motivation when you constantly suffer from a lot of setbacks?”  -@NRQuotes94

 

Favorite Quotes:

  • “If you get tired, learn to rest, not to quit.”
  • “Forget your troubles and dance.” -Bob Marley
  • “Stay focused on whatever you want to do and don’t doubt yourself.”
  • “Focus is more important than intelligence.”

 

Review of the week:

By “Hauber18” - “Finding yourself if hard. Earn Your Happy podcast is a reminder that you can do it! Lori’s inspiring and so enjoyable to listen to. Want to be the best version of yourself, it starts here!”



Nov 12, 2018

In This Episode You Will Learn About:

  • How Dr. Joe reprogrammed his brain in order to heal his body after a traumatic accident
  • Being present with greater intelligence
  • Future present reality vs. past present reality
  • The creative process
  • Going from victim to creator
  • Teaching your body emotionally what the future will feel like before it happens
  • Causing an effect vs. cause and effect
  • Conditioning your body and brain into the future
  • The importance of creating on a daily basis
  • Losing free will to a “program”
  • Getting beyond your environment
  • Creating energy to heal
  • The natural state of being
  • Addiction to emotions
  • Blind spots of awareness
  • Getting conscious of unconscious thoughts
  • Walking meditation
  • The delicate balance between intention and surrender
  • Loving intelligence
  • Neurochemically conditioning your body to work as one
  • Dr. Joe’s workshops and retreats

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

I am so beyond grateful for today’s guest, Dr. Joe Dispenza. His books and teachings were at the very beginning of my journey and completely shifted everything for me. I believe there are moments in life that impact you so deeply and you’re never the same. In this episode, I talk about that moment and how everything I looked at changed forever. 

As an international lecturer, researcher, author and educator, Dr. Joe believes that each of us has the potential for greatness and unlimited abilities. This is why his passion has led him to educate thousands of people on how they can rewire their brains and recondition their bodies to make lasting changes. I can tell you firsthand that this is what he did for me. I truly believe his teachings were the beginning of rewiring the way I think. With a passion for neuroscience, epigenetics and quantum physics to explore the science behind spontaneous remissions and evolved consciousness. You will be blown away by Dr. Joe’s miraculous stories! 

So please, get comfortable and listen to every single word of our incredible conversation and if this hooks you, I encourage you to go grab one of his books and read it!

 

Question Highlights:

  • Did you always have this mind-body connection or do you feeling like it got awakened after your accident?
  • What advice do you give people who are in an environment that isn’t helpful for where they want to go?
  • How do you not take things personally or navigate that world of reflection?
  • Can you paint a picture of what it looks like when a person knows what to do but can’t quite visualize it?
  • What’s the connection between moving your body and getting into a new environment and accelerating that change?
  • Can you tell me about your events?

 

Quotes

"It’s so much easier to forget our vision than it is to remember it.”

“We’re innately wired to be creators.”

“The power that made the body heals the body.”

“Your personality creates your personal reality.” 

“If you’re not being defined by a vision of the future, then all you’re left with are memories of the past.” 

“Wisdom is the memory without the emotional charge.”

“The unknown has never let me down.” 

“My definition of the creative moment is when I forget myself.”

 

Joe Dispenza, D.C. is an international lecturer, researcher, corporate consultant, author, and educator who has been invited to speak in more than 32 countries on five continents. As a lecturer and educator, he is driven by the conviction that each of us has the potential for greatness and unlimited abilities. In his easy-to-understand, encouraging, and compassionate style, he has educated thousands of people, detailing how they can rewire their brains and recondition their bodies to make lasting changes.

In addition to offering a variety of online courses and teleclasses, he has personally taught three-day progressive workshops and five-day advanced workshops in the U.S. and abroad. Starting in 2018, his workshops will become week-long offerings, and the content of the progressive and advanced workshops will be available online. (To learn more, please visit the events section at: www.drjoedispenza.com.) Dr. Joe is also a faculty member at Quantum University in Honolulu, Hawaii; the Omega Institute for Holistic Studies in Rhinebeck, New York; and Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health in Stockbridge, Massachusetts. He’s also an invited chair of the research committee at Life University in Atlanta, Georgia.

As a researcher, Dr. Joe’s passion can be found at the intersection of the latest findings from the fields of neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum physics to explore the science behind spontaneous remissions. He uses that knowledge to help people heal themselves of illnesses, chronic conditions, and even terminal diseases so they can enjoy a more fulfilled and happy life, as well as evolve their consciousness.

As a NY Times best-selling author, Dr. Joe has written You Are the Placebo: Making Your Mind Matter (Hay House, 2014), which explores our ability to heal without drugs or surgery, but rather by thought alone. He has also written Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One (Hay House, 2012) and Evolve Your Brain: The Science of Changing Your Mind (2007), both of which detail the neuroscience of change and epigenetics. Becoming Supernatural is Dr. Joe’s fourth book. His film appearances include HEAL (2017); E-Motion (2014); Sacred Journey of the Heart (2012); People v. the State of Illusion (2011); What IF – The Movie (2010); Unleashing Creativity (2009); and What the #$*! Do We Know? & Down the Rabbit Hole, extended DVD version (2005).

 

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Nov 8, 2018

In This Episode We Talk about:

  • The need for tests in order to realize our dreams
  • Fear of tests
  • Supporting yourself

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

I just returned from being on an Oprah Magazine Cruise with Holland America and am still sitting in the experience. I met so many amazing people and got to speak to and coach a different demographic than I’m used to. And while having lunch and random conversations with so many of these people throughout the week, I realized that we’re all the same, and we’re all tested at one time or another. 

Never be ashamed of your dreams or the thing you want to do the most. There will always be tests along the way that test your faith. And while they’re often super uncomfortable, they are 100% necessary to help you realize your dreams. Instead of giving up, say “bring it!” This is your faith practice. It’s digging in your heels, being scared, and not feeling good – and moving forward anyway. After all how can you be tested if you’re not experiencing it?

“It’s OK to be afraid, but it’s not OK to give up." 

So lean in. Experience it. Let time help you work through it. Your faith is tested by often extreme measures. Learn how to support yourself through it. Who can you call? Can you pray, meditate or read a book? What keeps that faith alive? Just as you would study or prepare for a test, you must prepare (not avoid) the tests that come up around your dream.

“Don’t resist the test, prepare for it – it’s how you pass.”

These tests will strengthen you and help refine what you’re meant to do. Stop avoiding them.

“You don’t get better or get the reward unless you keep showing up – no matter the result.”

So keep showing up. Let go where you can and know that you’re not alone. Something beautiful is just around the corner. Are you ready for it?

 

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Nov 7, 2018

Review of the week:

"Earn your Happy is one of my FAVORITE podcasts! Lori truly speaks from her heart and experience and wants everyone she reaches to ‘earn their happy’! From amazing speakers to a quick 5-minute quote, this podcasts fuels my creativity and grit to do more work with my life! THANK YOU Lori for all this amazing content! If you have not listened, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!?!

 

Questions:

Ally M.

"My question for you is, have you ever faced problems with jealousy, and if you have, do you have any tips on how to overcome those feelings?"

 

Genevieve L.

"I am a UK-based listener and have been really inspired to become part of a business that has a positive impact on the world like yours and a lot of the guests on the podcast. Do you know of any UK-based entrepreneurs or businesses for people like me to check out?"

 

Amy W. @amywilford15

"It was so awesome to finally meet you randomly in the courtyard at The Summit of Greatness through our mutual friend Linda! I <3 you, your content, and your authenticity, BUT if you could claim anyone else’s content as your own, whose would it be and why?"

 

Alex A. @atracktive

"What are some things I can do to put my negative self-talk (aka my inner sh*t talker) on mute?"

 

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Nov 5, 2018

In This Episode We Talk about:

  • Amy’s 3 stages/phases of business
  • Confidence-boosting in phase 1
  • Why you should avoid comparison and protect your space
  • The importance of producing content on a consistent basis
  • The ideal customer avatar
  • Amy’s insecurity at first in the online world
  • The two types of people you need in your life
  • Keeping things simple and finishing everything you start
  • Finding your “sweet spot” in phase 2
  • Amy’s early mindset struggles and mind-blocks
  • When to push past your pricing comfort zone
  • Why you should focus on the opportunities and possibilities when promoting a new product/program – not the features
  • Asking for help in phase 3 and building a team
  • How Amy is getting uncomfortable to do bigger and better things (membership program)
  • Getting support at a high level, and picking and choosing what you need
  • Tips for a millionaire launch
  • Why Amy loves webinars and how she uses them

 

Resources:

 

Show Notes

I’ve been following today’s guest, online marketing expert, Amy Porterfield, for so long and we have so many mutual friends that I feel like we’ve known each other for years…but we’ve never even talked before this interview. I’m not sure how it’s possible, but we definitely made up for lost time with our interview.

If you’ve never heard of Amy and you work with online marketing in some way, shape or form, or you’re just plain curious what it’s all about, you’re not going to want to miss our conversation. We discuss Amy’s three stages of business and all the feelings and tools that go along with each of them. I can’t tell you how much of what she shared helped me and my team as we were right in the middle of one of our own launches.

This episode was filled with valuable tips, tools and advice for all levels, and I can’t wait to hear if any of her tips help move you to the next level, too! If you know of someone who could benefit from this episode, please share!  

 

Question Highlights:

  • Who are we talking to when we say “new” to the online world?
  • What are some of the first steps that someone would take to move through the emotions of overwhelm?
  • What do you think is important in the early stages? What will help break you through to phase 2?
  • What was your phase one like?
  • What woman were you at phase 2?
  • What advice do you give around plateaus?
  • In phase 2, what were your biggest blocks?
  • What things came up in phase 2 that you thought were going to take you down?
  • What do you experience at the start of phase 3?
  • What are the plateaus of phase 3?
  • What are some of the biggest tools of phase 3?

 

Quotes

"You need to surround yourself with people who are doing amazing things and show you what’s possible.”

“Every decision you make is not set in stone – you can pivot and reinvent yourself and do new things.” 

“Stop playing small in the places where there’s opportunity to play big.” 

“If you become the person who finishes what they start, you’re going to be in a prime spot to start scaling.”

“Look for experts who are laser-focused where you want to go.”

 

Amy is an online marketing expert and educator and the host of the top-ranked podcast, Online Marketing Made Easy. Amy has worked with mega brands like Harley-Davidson Motorcycles and Peak Performance Coach, Tony Robbins, where she oversaw the content development team and collaborated on groundbreaking online marketing campaigns. Through her bestselling marketing courses, thriving social media community and popular podcast, Amy inspires a grounded, tangible and self-affirming sense of “Wow! I really can do this” for over 250,000 online entrepreneurs. She proves that by moving away from “step-by-step” and into “action-by-action”, even the newest online entrepreneurs can bypass overwhelm and self-doubt, and instead generate exciting momentum as they move closer to building a life and business they love.

 

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